The SELF Score Assessment
Discover Exactly Where You're Stuck and
Where to Focus Your Healing
You know something needs to change. You feel it every time you collapse into bed exhausted. Every time you say “yes” when you want to say “no.”
Every time you put everyone else first and yourself last.
But where do you even start?
That's exactly what the SELF Score Assessment
will show you.
In just 10 minutes, you'll discover where you're struggling in the four critical areas that determine whether you're thriving or just surviving:
S – Self-Awareness: Do you know who you are beyond what you do for others?
E – Evolution & Empowerment: Are you learning, expanding, and making choices that honor your future self?
L – Letting Go: Are you holding on to limiting beliefs and patterns that no longer serve you?
F – Fulfillment: Do you feel truly connected and nourished by the life you’ve built?
Your results will show you exactly where to focus your healing so you can stop guessing and start making real progress.
Why the SELF Score Matters
Because you can't change what you don't acknowledge.
You've been running on autopilot for so long that you might not even realize where you're struggling. You've normalized the exhaustion, the guilt, the people-pleasing, the constant putting yourself last.
But what's normal isn't the same as what's healthy.
The SELF Score Assessment helps you see clearly where the patterns are
holding you back so you can start breaking them.
Because healing without direction is just hoping things get better.
You've tried the self-help books. You've listened to the podcasts. You've told yourself you'll do better tomorrow. But without knowing exactly where you need to focus,
you end up right back where you started.
The SELF Score gives you a roadmap. It shows you which area needs your attention most so you can stop spinning your wheels and start making real change.
Because you deserve to feel whole, not just functional.
You've spent years being capable, reliable, and strong for everyone else. But capability without fulfillment is just performance. And you're tired of performing.
The SELF Score helps you move from just functioning to actually thriving.
From just getting by to living with peace, confidence, and clarity.
This Is for the Woman Who's Done Shrinking
Maybe you're the high achiever who checks every box but still feels empty inside.
Maybe you're the caretaker who pours into everyone else until there's nothing left for yourself.
Maybe you're the strong friend who carries everyone's burdens alone because you don't want to be a burden.
Maybe you're healing from childhood wounds, relationship hurt, betrayal, or years of perfectionism that convinced you your worth was tied to what you could do for others.
Whoever you are, wherever you've been, here's what I know about you:
You're ready to stop apologizing for needing rest, boundaries, and fulfillment.
You're ready to understand yourself better, break the patterns that have kept you stuck, and reclaim the confidence you've been giving away to everyone else.
You're ready to prioritize your healing without guilt, know your value without question, and make self-love something you practice, not something you postpone.
Simply Lovable® is here to help you do exactly that.
What Makes Simply Lovable® Different
We give you structure, not just inspiration.
This isn't about bubble baths and positive affirmations. This is about doing the deep work to heal the parts you've ignored for too long – the inner critic, the neglected needs, the patterns you're ready to break, and the confidence you're ready to reclaim.
We meet you where you are.
Whether you're 18 or 80, whether you're just starting to question your patterns or you're deep in your healing journey, Simply Lovable® gives you resources that are purposeful, personal, and designed to support the woman you're becoming.
We don't do surface-level self-care.
This isn't about bubble baths and positive affirmations. This is about doing the deep work to heal the parts you've ignored for too long – the inner critic, the neglected needs, the patterns you're ready to break, and the confidence you're ready to reclaim.
We create community without pressure.
You're not alone in this. You're surrounded by women who understand what it's like to feel overlooked, overwhelmed, and emotionally stretched. Women who are choosing themselves. Women who refuse to shrink anymore.
Start Here: Take the
SELF Score Assessment
Before you can heal what's been holding you back, you need to know where you are.
The SELF Score Assessment is a quick evaluation that reveals exactly where you're struggling in four critical areas:
S – Self-Awareness:
Understanding who you are beyond what you do for others
E – Evolution & Empowerment:
Growing into the woman you're meant to be
L – Letting Go
Releasing limiting beliefs and patterns that no longer
serve you
F – Fulfillment:
Building self-care practices that actually fill you up
Take the assessment in 10 minutes and discover exactly where to focus your healing.
Shop Self-Love Tools That
Actually Work
The Simply Lovable® Bundle
Everything you need to start your self-love journey in one complete package. Guided prompts, reflection tools, and practical resources designed to help you heal, grow,
and choose yourself without guilt.
Notebook Collection
Beautiful, purposeful journals for the woman who's ready to process her thoughts, track her healing, and document her transformation.
Self-Love Card Deck
Daily prompts to challenge your inner critic, practice self-compassion, and reclaim your worth one card at a time.
Companion Workbook
Structured exercises and guided reflection to help you break patterns, set boundaries, and build the life you actually want.
Meet LaMora D. Pace, LCSW
Founder of Simply Lovable®
Hi, I'm LaMora, and I created Simply Lovable® because I know what it feels like to lose yourself while taking care of everyone else.
For years, I was the strong one, the dependable one, the one who showed up no matter what. I thought loving others meant putting myself last. I thought rest was something I had to earn. I thought my needs didn't matter as much as everyone else's.
I was wrong.
The breaking point came when I realized I couldn't even answer the question, "What do you need?" I had spent so long taking care of everyone else that I had completely lost myself.
That's when I started doing the deep work. I challenged the lies I'd been believing. I set boundaries without apologizing. I rested without guilt. I chose myself without shame.
And I watched my entire life transform.
Now, as a Licensed Clinical Social Worker and creator of the SELF Method™, I help women like you do the same thing. Simply Lovable® is my way of giving you the tools, structure, and support to prioritize your healing, know your value, and make self-love a non-negotiable part of your life.
You deserve to feel whole. You deserve to choose yourself. You deserve to be simply lovable®, exactly as you are.
Ready to Choose Yourself?
You've been strong for everyone else long enough. You've been putting yourself last, ignoring your needs, and waiting for permission to rest.
Permission granted.
It's time to prioritize your healing. It's time to know your worth. It's time to make self-love something you practice every single day.
Start with the SELF Score Assessment to see where you are. Explore our self-love tools to get the support you need. Join a community of women who are choosing themselves without apology.
You are capable. You are worthy. You are simply lovable®.
The mission of Simply Lovable® is to inspire and empower women of all ages to fearlessly embrace their individuality and nurture self-love as they honor their journey of personal growth and heal from the invisible scars of past childhood and relationship traumas.
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